Okay! The next step is knowing the other person. You have to observe them and kind of figure out their yes and nos. I recently met this sweet girl but she is super shy. She's really close to my school counselor and I love her but we're not close. She used to talk to me but THINGS CHANGE. Anyway this new girl has a small voice and always looks down. I always told myself. What would you do if you were her? YOU have to be the bigger person!