You Can Get Through This - Volume 2
written by Sage Maiden
Are you going through self-hate, self harm, depression, etc? Don't worry, remember that you're not alone. We can get through this together.
Last Updated
05/31/21
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Survivor's Guilt/Someone's Death
Chapter 3
When my aunt died, I went through this. Her death was the start of my self hatred. Most of the signs that I listed or from experience, not a professional, so the signs may be different for everyone.
3 Signs That you are Going Through Survivor's Guilt/Someone's Death are:
-You think that you should die, or that you should've died rather than the other person
-Almost everything reminds you of that person
-You have tried to contact that person
How to Deal With It
-If you think that the person shouldn't have died, well you are partly right and partly wrong. Everything happens for a reason. That person was probably suffering before they died. Once they die, they're at peace now. Remember that they're in a better place now.
-If you think that you should die, remember this: the person you are grieving for wouldn't want that for you. They're in a better place now. If you died, they wouldn't be at peace. Remember that they are watching over you. Stay strong!
-If almost everything reminds of that person, that is completely okay. That just mean that they are around you, watching over you, protecting you.
-Some of you may have tried contacting them. I would not do this. I do not like playing around with Black Magic. Some people may be fine with this, but there is always the chance you can release evil spirits. I don't have much to say about this, so its your choice if you want to try and contact them.
3 Signs That you are Going Through Survivor's Guilt/Someone's Death are:
-You think that you should die, or that you should've died rather than the other person
-Almost everything reminds you of that person
-You have tried to contact that person
How to Deal With It
-If you think that the person shouldn't have died, well you are partly right and partly wrong. Everything happens for a reason. That person was probably suffering before they died. Once they die, they're at peace now. Remember that they're in a better place now.
-If you think that you should die, remember this: the person you are grieving for wouldn't want that for you. They're in a better place now. If you died, they wouldn't be at peace. Remember that they are watching over you. Stay strong!
-If almost everything reminds of that person, that is completely okay. That just mean that they are around you, watching over you, protecting you.
-Some of you may have tried contacting them. I would not do this. I do not like playing around with Black Magic. Some people may be fine with this, but there is always the chance you can release evil spirits. I don't have much to say about this, so its your choice if you want to try and contact them.
